We are a happily engaged white couple who are looking to explore new fantasies as I am finally "breaking out of my shell"... He has always wanted to see me with a Big black man (especially since he knows I have been with them in my younger years...) But this would be a first with someone watching like my fiancé /:> We have also talked about me being with a woman, which has seemed to excite me a bit.... I have had some experiences with women, but more just kissing and touching.... We are also interested in couples with similar interests that we can form friendships with.... )He of course would love to find a couple also where a white woman wants or already loves BBC :D).... I am okay with couples that just have more "kinky" interests than what the world finds to be "okay" so to say... I am very slim, sexy (or so I am told...) and multi-orgasmic. I am typically clean and shaven. Although I do enjoy sex, I am not just looking to "fuck" (No I am not looking for love either, more like..... pleasure) I am a touchy feely type of per... I love to touch and be touched... I am not big on sucking dick, but if the mood is right... and you have made me feel just right.... you might have a chance... I am typically a very happy per, I can stay positive in almost any situation.... I am more on the shy side, but am slowly learning to break out of that shell also.... Just because you send us a flirt or add us to your hotlist, does not mean I will send a message... You may need to initiate if you are interested..... \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\** My other/better half can be more of a get to the point kind of guy.... he is a kind and caring soul also.... He can be a little hot headed at times, but I can normally cool him down pretty quickly.... \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\** We are happy in our relationship, we have our issues as does any couple, but we are still together, we are still happy, in love and continuing to fall in love each and every day.... We have been through hell and back, more than once, we have been together for almost 10 years and are still going strong.... neither of us are going anywhere so don't bother thinking so!!

My Ideal Person we would like to find someone who is black, between 38 and 50 years old.
preferably professional and also a gentleman.
someone well endowed and maybe a little dominant who will be gentle with her at first...someone who can take the time to seduce her. Someone who is looking to please not just fuck.....
if you want a chance with her you have to make it happen, she's inexperienced, shy and a little nervous, at first.... you have to make her comfortable with it and you.
tell her about you, what you like to do and how you will treat her like a sexy white woman... you might need to be a little patient at first, but she will be worth it!
Stay away from the anal talk she is not interested. She is also not a fan of sucking dick, but will do if the mood is right.
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Also looking for a female or couple that are like minded.... or bi or bi-curious woman that might like to assist me with pleasing her or maybe female/couple that would like to start a friendship or maybe more. This is all about her though, so she is the only one the focus will be on. She is not at all interested in seeing me with someone else. A little touching maybe, but nothing more.
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We are open to ideas as we are just starting to explore.....

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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