We have been married for a long time. She likes BBC. He rarely is present and does not participate. This is a lifestyle we have enjoyed for about 10 years. As indicated above, his involvement rarely goes beyond knowing your identity and which hotel and room the two of you end up at. She enjoys being ravished and does not want the distraction of having hubby around. We all prefer a long term partner. The sex gets better and as the trust level rises, overnights or even trips become possible. Of course, none of us will know about long term potential until the first meet.

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