In the normal world, I'm a hard working, dedicated property professional. Once back home, I become a very kinky hedonistic, alpha male. My background is in the swinging scene. But it's not so easy to host other couples. When your currently single. Over the years my kinks have developed from the swinging scene. Where I have started clubs, to more lately the hosting of smaller more intimate gatherings. More about me. I recently turned 46, and still havent found what Im looking for. Although now, I do think I know exactly the lady that I seek. So, I'm seeking a lady who is either a submissive or a total hedonist who wants to take flight and help me to entertain other kinky couples. I do like to chat with possible partners using many of the instant messenger methods. Music and watching sports are also important things to me in this phase of my life. Plus I do enjoy cooking, and having a lady to make dinner for. Would be a good thing to do. I consider quite romantic. Even for someone who is happy for other men to have sex with his partner. The is much more to me than just a 40 something swinger. The instant messenger on this site isnt that great. So please kick me at deaninmeasham Or message me your IM through this site. So we can get to know each other off it.

My Ideal Person The lady that I seek must have a love of sex. She has to be a hedonist, and be used to being in group play situations. As I do like to host friends at my home, and when I host friends here. Clothes tend to be removed, and the sex just happens. Im happy to meet occasionally, but would prefer something more meaningful. That can be built on

My partner should either be a smoker. Or tolerant towards smokers, and not just of the cigarette variety.

I've become more into the D/s scene during my journey through life, and I would prefer my lady to be of the submissive nature. When were together.

If your not a genuine lady. Please go and find someone else to bug. As Im not sending you money for your ticket to come here. So, if your based outside of the UK, and cant make it here on your own. Then I guess our paths wont be meeting. Lets be honest, its hard enough to find suitable partners in the UK. So the chances of finding success with an overseas lady is slim to none.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Fleetwood Mac, Pink Floyd, Metallica

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Kristen Stewart in the movie The Runaways. About an all
girl rock group.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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